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Post by staceyq on Sept 3, 2008 1:26:51 GMT -5
I appreciate Kats Loyalty. Sometimes her words are taking the wrong way, something i can sympathise with and i think she is just looking out for a mate. Congratulations Indi. I hope you have fun on here. And better person xxiolla? Freudian slip? See ya guys! xxx
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Post by orangeblossom on Sept 3, 2008 3:26:44 GMT -5
don't take this personally, but i think StaceyQ deserved it really shes been on here longer and she don't just go on about herself and Jason's bulge which is getting a bit boring really, it used to be fun on here and more chat about the music, i guess ive outgrown the lets look at his dick (heehee) phase, been there done that, but anyway shes been a good mate to me on here so good luck for the future Q, apart from coming on here to pm you, I'm disappointed and I'm off. Honestly this really bothered me to see this. Indi was chosen by people who voted. I feel that you are being disrespectful to the election process. Starting something is not cool and feels like a slap to the face to me and all the others who voted. We voted, Indi won. That's it, and you could do your part by making the transition as smooth as possible. Also personal attacks aren't warranted. She's not attacking you, why are you attacking her? If you have a problem w/ the subject matter start another thread w/ something that you think is of importance.....or better yet don't read it. i find the topics amusing and funny and judging by all the people who've read and responded so do they. we've even gone as far as to contain all the salacious stuff in place as to not offend those w/ more delicate sensibilities. and if you have to start off something w/ "don't take this personally" i doubt it's something you have to say at all. that's passive aggressive and i agree w/ indi on the fact that it should have been a private matter between you two rather than upset others on this site who will see it. your excuse of being blunt is just another way of saying "i like to cause drama" i mean your words really could have been better chosen and it on my reading it hurts my feelings, let alone the person you wrote it about. and indi has been doing alot to spice things up, most of the people who regularly post are on here from word of mouth (or type) by indi. indi was one of the few people who welcomed me when i came on here. and i notice she makes the effort to welcome all the newcomers. so here you are complaining but i haven't seen you interacting or doing something about it. so if your intention was to polarize this site. well good job Well said SWAD... I don't want to add too much except to say... well done to Indi who won fairly through the voting system. I guess we'll try not to cause you too much grief I'm sure StaceyQ would have been equally a good moderator but she didn't win and that's democracy. But to suggest that because you've been a member of the board for longer makes you a more valid fan is crap. If people think you should have been on the board longer to be nominated...then that should be part of the rules for nomination. I personally don't think its a valid qualification to be the moderator. It certainly doesn't make you more of a fan. I think this is generally a fun place and there's room to talk about the music which we all love and the crotch/bulge/fangirly stuff...if that's your choice. Its certainly been more active since we've had the OC thread and started sharing things. I personally don't want to spend a lot of time in deep conversation about the music...for me I'm happy to listen and enjoy without over-analysing it. My point is there is room for both...and if you don't like one or the other then don't get upset about it, just don't f*cking read it!!! Its a shame that what should have just been a congraulations to the winner has descended into a cat -fight O-B x
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Post by kat on Sept 3, 2008 3:36:15 GMT -5
well thank you for your honest opinions, but i am not Indi bashing or a hater or as some think jealous i have nothing personal against her, i merely expressed my personal opinion, Q was in my mind the better person just as somebody said about indi, but hey I'm not allowed to say that, or that lately the board has become a bit boring. But feel free to have your say and have a go. and the reason i have not contributed much lately is also because i have been having treatment for pre cancerous cells in the cervix, and had a lot of problems and not knowing whether the 2 results would come back normal or more extensive treatment would be needed has drained me and i didn't feel upbeat enough to join in. and i didnt want to depress everyone, i looked in now and then and didnt feel there was anything to join in on, plus i was trying to sort myself out oh before you start its not an excuse and i don't want sympathy but thats why.
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Post by orangeblossom on Sept 3, 2008 3:41:30 GMT -5
well thank you for your honest opinions, but i am not Indi bashing or a hater or as some think jealous i have nothing personal against her, i merely expressed my personal opinion, Q was in my mind the better person just as somebody said about indi, but hey I'm not allowed to say that, or that lately the board has become a bit boring. But feel free to have your say and have a go. and the reason i have not contributed much lately is also because i have been having treatment for pre cancerous cells in the cervix, and had a lot of problems and not knowing whether the 2 results would come back normal or more extensive treatment would be needed has drained me and i didn't feel upbeat enough to join in. and i didnt want to depress everyone, i looked in now and then and didnt feel there was anything to join in on, plus i was trying to sort myself out oh before you start its not an excuse and i don't want sympathy but thats why. Hon - I'm sorry you've not been well and I hope everything is OK. - honestly that's not meant to sound as patronising as it probably does. I hope you're ok [hugs] No-one is having a go at your loyalty to Rosie.....just maybe your wording was poorly judged. Your opinion is as valid as anyone else's here......it would be shame to lose anyone from the board over this. Really.......lets just draw a line and move on x ♥ x
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Post by kat on Sept 3, 2008 4:11:38 GMT -5
as i said i don't want sympathy but that is the reason i have not joined in much for the last few months and i didn't want to come on here moaning about it, but thats besides the point and i never said that being a longer member made anyone a bigger fan, i felt that Q knew the people on here better for obvious reasons, perhaps i felt let down by the older members that she didn't get more support, and i didn't bother to read a lot of it because it didn't interest me much, sorry . i am not disrespecting the voting system but we don't all have to agree it, and I'm sure indi is big enough not to cry over this because one person has said they didn't like the result, and the topics lately, and she replied fair enough but if I'm supposedly insulting and rude what about you lot, because i am loyal to Q and had my say i get slagged off by all indis Friends. so to get you all off my back good luck indi.. as i said nothing personal i don't know you, but i know what i like and thats that really.
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Post by indi on Sept 3, 2008 5:49:01 GMT -5
Kat. I appreciate your dedicationto your friend. I understand what you are saying in part, but like you said since I have not been here as long as some, I feel like some of you do not have a complete understanding of who I am or what I am about. My contributions to this board do not consist soley of posting crotch pics. That thread has specific rules put in place so that people could have fun. I'm sorry you are bored by this place lately but many others are not. Since I have been here I have never seen it so active and I actually think it seems more exciting and there are more topics and people here on a regular basis who are actually talking to one another. The bit about talking about my self I did take offense to. I don't think I do that, I certainly do not intend to have myself come across that way. I would like place to be more like a family/support system where it is acceptable to post or start threads about things if you want to, and not have to worry about weather or not someone would think you were going on about yourself. I 'm also sorry about the health problems you have been going through. That must be very scary and difficult for you and I hope you know we are all here to support you through it if you need us. (((hugs)))
Having said all that, I hope we all can move on from here in a positive direction...
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Post by Sans Nom on Sept 3, 2008 8:52:09 GMT -5
Hey guys, I just want to say something, and I know I'm guilty of forgetting this myself at times, but... IT'S JUST THE INTERNET. There's enough drama in real life. Let's leave it there. Also, congratulations Indi. I mean that.
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Post by lgxiv on Sept 4, 2008 20:08:48 GMT -5
congrats indi!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you will do a fabulous job! don't let the haters turn you into a ball of twine, lmao!!! xoxo
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Post by kat on Sept 4, 2008 20:19:59 GMT -5
Look I said my thoughts, Indi and her friends said theirs, thats it over with. I am not a hater OK, but if you want to keep this going fine...
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Post by indi on Sept 4, 2008 22:15:20 GMT -5
Oh for goodness sakes! Everyone has had their say, Please all of you stop trying to one up the other, and just move on.
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Post by kat on Sept 5, 2008 2:27:39 GMT -5
For the record i am not trying to get one up and perhaps i have come across as rude, but so have others, as you say its finished with now but i dont like being called a hater, i dont hate indi i dont know her so please stop now.
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